The Safari

A FIELD JOURNAL OF UNEXPECTED FRIENDSHIPS

The Safari.

Some of my favorite souls
don’t carry passports.

A pigeon in Croatia. A sparrow in Spain. A chipmunk in my own backyard. Meet the little lives that have become a big part of mine.

Meet my animal friends

Different species. Same little planet.

Rocky Trifari beside a colorful bird mural, wearing a Protect Animals shirt
ROCKY TRIFARI · PROTECT ANIMALSA life outside the comfort zone.

THE FRIENDS BEHIND THE STORIES

A world of places.
A few unforgettable faces.

Travel has introduced me to incredible people. But some of my most meaningful connections have happened without a single word. These are the animals I came to know, the routines we shared, and the friendships I still carry with me.

Five house sparrows sharing a meal in Rocky’s hand in Madrid
FIELD NOTES · MADRID, SPAINA handful of trust.

EVERY FACE IN THIS FIELD JOURNAL

Many friends.
One long safari.

01 / A MONTH THAT MEANT EVERYTHING

Two pigeons.
One very hard goodbye.

ZADAR, CROATIA · 2018

A month by the Adriatic became a daily ritual with two very different personalities. I came to recognize them. They came to recognize me.

Belle, a white and dark-feathered pigeon, beside flowers in Zadar
Belle · The gentle one
ROCK PIGEON / QUIET & GENTLE

Belle

I named her for the church bells that rang around the time I saw her each morning. With an injured leg, Belle struggled to keep up when the flock gathered for food. We found our own little routine: a separate pile of grain, and a chance for her to eat in peace.

Over 28 days, I spotted her more than 25 times. Somewhere along the way, looking for Belle became part of what it meant to be in Zadar.

Read Belle’s story
Jesse standing on Rocky’s outstretched hand in Croatia
Jesse · The bold one
ROCK PIGEON / BOLD & INQUISITIVE

Jesse

Jesse was courageous, observant, and always first in line. Our friendship happened almost by chance. About two weeks after we met, he decided my hand was a perfectly acceptable place to land.

Soon, he was flying onto me when he spotted me in town. What had once left me stunned became normal Jesse behavior: lunch first, then a little time together.

Read Jesse’s story
Rocky holding Jesse the pigeon in CroatiaJesse perched on Rocky’s hand on a bench in Zadar
Pancake the chipmunk visiting Rocky beside his shoe
NO PASSPORT REQUIRED

02 / THE SAFARI CAME HOME

NEW JERSEY · SUMMER 2020

Meet Pancake.

Small paws. Full cheeks.
A very big personality.

When travel stopped, I built a backyard feeding area I called “Rocky’s Ark.” Among the visitors was a timid Eastern chipmunk who kept getting chased away by the others.

I began approaching her patiently, away from the competition. Little by little, fear turned into trust. Pancake started climbing onto me, choosing her favorite nuts, and even enjoying a gentle brush with a soft toothbrush.

She made a time of isolation feel a little less lonely. My story ends with me waiting for her return after winter—still hoping to see that familiar face again.

Get to know Pancake

The sweetest adventure was in my own backyard.

BACKYARD FIELD NOTES / 2020

Welcome to
Rocky’s Ark.

NEW JERSEY · AT HOME DURING LOCKDOWN

When I couldn’t travel, a little patch of my backyard became a place to reconnect with the animal world.

Birds gathering to eat on the curved stonework of Rocky’s backyard Ark
The Ark · A gathering place for the backyard flock

A whole neighborhood
of little lives.

I called it “Rocky’s Ark”: an arc-shaped area of stonework that became a feeding spot during the pandemic. The name was a nod to Noah’s Ark, and the idea was simple—a place where different animals could gather.

House sparrows, mourning doves, cardinals, blue jays, cowbirds, and grackles all turned up. Squirrels and chipmunks joined them. Watching the regulars became part of my days at home, and eventually led to my friendship with Pancake.

Each visitor had its own habits. A pair of mourning doves returned day after day. The squirrels ate little peanut-butter sandwiches with their paws, and later even knocked on my door for attention. It wasn’t always peaceful, but there was always something happening.

Visit the Ark in my 2020 year-in-review
Backyard birds visiting the stone feeding area at Rocky’s Ark
A little safari, right outside the door.

03 / BECOMING SEÑOR PÁJARO

Big Head.
And a whole little world.

MADRID, SPAIN · 2019

One sparrow became two. Two became three. Before long, I had a whole flock—and a nickname from the people in Spain: “Señor Pájaro”—“Mr. Birdkeeper.”

Big Head, Rocky’s familiar young house sparrow, perched on his hand
Big Head · My unmistakable little friend
HOUSE SPARROW / A FAMILIAR FACE IN THE FLOCK

The one I knew
from the beginning.

Big Head hatched in May 2019. Her distinctive head made it possible for me to pick her out from the other sparrows—and because I knew her from day one, the trust between us was something special.

The flock became part of my daily life. They perched on my shoes, landed in my hands, and even walked alongside me. Friends and family came to meet them. Strangers stopped to talk. These tiny birds connected me to a whole community.

Meet Big Head & the Madrid sparrows
Rocky with his sparrow friends in Madrid
Me & my sparrow-friends, Madrid
A house sparrow settled in the palm of Rocky’s hand in Madrid
A house sparrow perched on Rocky’s fingers in MadridA sparrow taking seed from Rocky’s handA sparrow waiting on Rocky’s armA note in Madrid calling Rocky “Mr. Birdkeeper”House sparrows gathered on the ground in MadridA sparrow mid-hop beside Rocky’s handSparrows feeding from Rocky’s open palmA single sparrow watching from a branchA sparrow landing on Rocky’s handThe Madrid flock gathered around RockyA sparrow close up in MadridSparrows sharing a meal in Rocky’s handA sparrow perched on Rocky’s fingertipsRocky feeding the sparrow flock in a Madrid parkRocky in Madrid with the sparrowsBig Head, the sparrow Rocky knew from the beginning
A NOTE FROM THE FIELD

“Leaving is hard.
Leaving without being able to explain yourself is harder.”

ROCKY · ON SAYING GOODBYE TO THE ZADAR FLOCK ↗︎

04 / THE FRIENDS WE COME HOME TO

The safari begins
close to home.

Some friendships come with a plane ticket. Others become part of everyday life. These companions belong to the story just as much.

Bentley, Rocky’s family cavapoo
THE LITTLE RAY OF LIGHT

Bentley

I never expected to help raise a dog. Then Bentley arrived in 2022. This gentle cavapoo brought my family comfort during a difficult time—and quickly revealed his silly side, love of rope toys, and talent for giving paw.

Meet Bentley
Bentley, Rocky’s family cavapoo
THE GENTLE SOUL

Cleo

Cleo was a quiet Maine Coon who loved her routine and needed her space. After my travels, I learned to connect with her on her terms. She preferred a brush to a hand, and patience helped us grow closer. We said goodbye in December 2021.

Remembering Cleo
Bentley, Rocky’s family cavapoo
THE HOMEWORK COMPANION

Cyber

Cyber, my little parakeet, would sit on my shoulder and nibble my pencil while I worked through math homework. A clap of my hands was enough to bring her flying over to land on my head. Small bird. Enormous place in my heart.

Remembering Cyber
Bentley, Rocky’s family cavapoo
AN EARLY CHAPTER

Pepper

My family adopted Pepper in 2003, long before the journeys that would fill this blog. He shared our home for years, briefly overlapping with Cleo. His photograph belongs here, too: a familiar face from the earliest chapters of my life with animals.

Remembering Pepper

MORE FACES ALONG THE WAY

A crossing of paths.
A memory that stays.

Not every encounter became a long friendship. These moments still made the journey.

The Sarajevo flock
BOSNIA & HERZEGOVINA

The Sarajevo flock

After leaving my Zadar friends, I rode a bus for 13 hours to a city famous for its pigeons. At Baščaršija, a whole new flock was waiting.

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The green newcomer
MADRID, SPAIN

The green newcomer

A strange squawk interrupted my pigeon routine. A curious Quaker parrot watched from a tree, then came down to join the birds.

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The cats of Athens
ATHENS, GREECE

The cats of Athens

A little bag of cat food turned our walks into a series of introductions. One black cat even trotted alongside us through Monastiraki.

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The curious coot
AMSTERDAM, THE NETHERLANDS

The curious coot

In Vondelpark, an unfamiliar bird caught my attention. A few unsuccessful attempts, a bag of peas, and one curious coot later, we had our moment.

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The pigeon flock in a Sarajevo squarePigeons gathering at Baščaršija in Sarajevo
Rocky with a sparrow in Madrid

THE COMPLETE SAFARI JOURNAL

Every story.
Every little adventure.

40 entries / 2013–2025

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