A FIELD JOURNAL OF UNEXPECTED FRIENDSHIPS
The Safari.
Some of my favorite souls
don’t carry passports.
A pigeon in Croatia. A sparrow in Spain. A chipmunk in my own backyard. Meet the little lives that have become a big part of mine.
Meet my animal friendsDifferent species. Same little planet.
THE FRIENDS BEHIND THE STORIES
A world of places.
A few unforgettable faces.
Travel has introduced me to incredible people. But some of my most meaningful connections have happened without a single word. These are the animals I came to know, the routines we shared, and the friendships I still carry with me.

EVERY FACE IN THIS FIELD JOURNAL
Many friends.
One long safari.
01 / A MONTH THAT MEANT EVERYTHING
Two pigeons.
One very hard goodbye.
A month by the Adriatic became a daily ritual with two very different personalities. I came to recognize them. They came to recognize me.

Belle
I named her for the church bells that rang around the time I saw her each morning. With an injured leg, Belle struggled to keep up when the flock gathered for food. We found our own little routine: a separate pile of grain, and a chance for her to eat in peace.
Over 28 days, I spotted her more than 25 times. Somewhere along the way, looking for Belle became part of what it meant to be in Zadar.
Read Belle’s story
Jesse
Jesse was courageous, observant, and always first in line. Our friendship happened almost by chance. About two weeks after we met, he decided my hand was a perfectly acceptable place to land.
Soon, he was flying onto me when he spotted me in town. What had once left me stunned became normal Jesse behavior: lunch first, then a little time together.
Read Jesse’s story


02 / THE SAFARI CAME HOME
NEW JERSEY · SUMMER 2020Meet Pancake.
Small paws. Full cheeks.
A very big personality.
When travel stopped, I built a backyard feeding area I called “Rocky’s Ark.” Among the visitors was a timid Eastern chipmunk who kept getting chased away by the others.
I began approaching her patiently, away from the competition. Little by little, fear turned into trust. Pancake started climbing onto me, choosing her favorite nuts, and even enjoying a gentle brush with a soft toothbrush.
She made a time of isolation feel a little less lonely. My story ends with me waiting for her return after winter—still hoping to see that familiar face again.
Get to know PancakeThe sweetest adventure was in my own backyard.
BACKYARD FIELD NOTES / 2020
Welcome to
Rocky’s Ark.
When I couldn’t travel, a little patch of my backyard became a place to reconnect with the animal world.

A whole neighborhood
of little lives.
I called it “Rocky’s Ark”: an arc-shaped area of stonework that became a feeding spot during the pandemic. The name was a nod to Noah’s Ark, and the idea was simple—a place where different animals could gather.
House sparrows, mourning doves, cardinals, blue jays, cowbirds, and grackles all turned up. Squirrels and chipmunks joined them. Watching the regulars became part of my days at home, and eventually led to my friendship with Pancake.
Each visitor had its own habits. A pair of mourning doves returned day after day. The squirrels ate little peanut-butter sandwiches with their paws, and later even knocked on my door for attention. It wasn’t always peaceful, but there was always something happening.
Visit the Ark in my 2020 year-in-review
03 / BECOMING SEÑOR PÁJARO
Big Head.
And a whole little world.
One sparrow became two. Two became three. Before long, I had a whole flock—and a nickname from the people in Spain: “Señor Pájaro”—“Mr. Birdkeeper.”

The one I knew
from the beginning.
Big Head hatched in May 2019. Her distinctive head made it possible for me to pick her out from the other sparrows—and because I knew her from day one, the trust between us was something special.
The flock became part of my daily life. They perched on my shoes, landed in my hands, and even walked alongside me. Friends and family came to meet them. Strangers stopped to talk. These tiny birds connected me to a whole community.
Meet Big Head & the Madrid sparrows

















“Leaving is hard.
Leaving without being able to explain yourself is harder.”
04 / THE FRIENDS WE COME HOME TO
The safari begins
close to home.
Some friendships come with a plane ticket. Others become part of everyday life. These companions belong to the story just as much.

Bentley
I never expected to help raise a dog. Then Bentley arrived in 2022. This gentle cavapoo brought my family comfort during a difficult time—and quickly revealed his silly side, love of rope toys, and talent for giving paw.
Meet Bentley
Cleo
Cleo was a quiet Maine Coon who loved her routine and needed her space. After my travels, I learned to connect with her on her terms. She preferred a brush to a hand, and patience helped us grow closer. We said goodbye in December 2021.
Remembering Cleo
Cyber
Cyber, my little parakeet, would sit on my shoulder and nibble my pencil while I worked through math homework. A clap of my hands was enough to bring her flying over to land on my head. Small bird. Enormous place in my heart.
Remembering Cyber
Pepper
My family adopted Pepper in 2003, long before the journeys that would fill this blog. He shared our home for years, briefly overlapping with Cleo. His photograph belongs here, too: a familiar face from the earliest chapters of my life with animals.
Remembering PepperMORE FACES ALONG THE WAY
A crossing of paths.
A memory that stays.
Not every encounter became a long friendship. These moments still made the journey.

The Sarajevo flock
After leaving my Zadar friends, I rode a bus for 13 hours to a city famous for its pigeons. At Baščaršija, a whole new flock was waiting.
Read the story
The green newcomer
A strange squawk interrupted my pigeon routine. A curious Quaker parrot watched from a tree, then came down to join the birds.
Read the story
The cats of Athens
A little bag of cat food turned our walks into a series of introductions. One black cat even trotted alongside us through Monastiraki.
Read the story
The curious coot
In Vondelpark, an unfamiliar bird caught my attention. A few unsuccessful attempts, a bag of peas, and one curious coot later, we had our moment.
Read the story


THE COMPLETE SAFARI JOURNAL
Every story.
Every little adventure.
The full collection from The Safari tag: friendships, curious encounters, reflections, conservation, and the animal-inspired ideas in between.
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- Witnessing the Buzzard Infestation of Myrtle Beach, South Carolina
- The House Sparrows I Hand Tamed and Bonded With In Madrid, Spain
- What Are the Green Parrots All Around Spain? A Quaker Parrot Invasion!
- Touring NYC’s Audubon Mural Project Featuring 148+ Species of Endangered Birds
- The Impact of Canada’s Wildfires, Hazardous Air Quality, and Climate Change on Wildlife
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- Touching Silkworms and Touring the Suzhou Silk Factory
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