My blog, The Rocky Safari, is a journey that began more than five years ago. As a high school student, I began to build this site because I had a desire to write and a dream to travel. Since then, my blog has evolved significantly and today, I run a multi-topic blog with stories about my most peculiar travel experiences, discussions about introversion, and my experiences as a gay man. This blog is a true reflection of my life story.
A quick search through my blog will turn up hundreds, if not thousands, of detailed posts where I’ve poured my heart out, talked about highs & lows, shared who I am, how I feel, and searched for people out in the world who might be able to relate to things I’ve gone through. Writing is my way of spreading awareness and sharing knowledge and emotions with people from countries all around the world. I wanted to write this post now, in 2018, to share a few life updates about who I am, where I’ve been, and where I’m going.
10 Facts About The Rocky Safari
- My name is Rocky. I am a 22 years old guy living super close to New York City!
- I graduated from Rutgers University where I studied psychology and entrepreneurship.
- I have spent the last year working in financial services learning about how money works, how to invest, tackle debt, and save money on several types of insurance. (Email me for FREE help getting your finances in order via [email protected])
- My ex-boyfriend, who I was hoping to eventually travel with, recently broke up with me. We were in a transatlantic LDR. I am American, he is European, and I always felt we’d make a good travel team with our different strengths and skills. After our break up, my vision for the future was shattered and I started to give up on my dreams of traveling the world. Until recently when I decided I should still go for it – solo!
- After four years of living on my own at college and working as a Resident Assistant for my university, I am back to living in my original hometown with my family. I’d like to think all of the moving around I’ve done these past few years has mildly prepared me for the nomadic traveling that awaits me in the coming months.
- My dream is to experience long-term travel as a lifestyle. The longest I have ever stayed out of the country was just one month. I want to go full-on digital nomad for awhile!
- I am OBSESSED WITH BIRDS.
- I have never had coffee IN MY LIFE. Never. Not even in college! I’m low-key proud of it. Instead, I get my caffeine fix from tea. I love tea!!!!
- Watching Survivor is my guilty pleasure. I actually AUDITIONED hahahahahahah.
- I love meeting new people, forming deep and meaning relationships, and helping others. If you know your Myers-Briggs personality type – I am INFJ.
10 Reasons I Want to Travel
- Most of my favorite memories stem from learning about other countries.
- Curiosity. I want to prove to myself that I can do it!
- They say amazing things happen right on the outside of your comfort zone. It is time to get uncomfortable again.
- Part of me feels like if I don’t do this now, when will I ever?
- I believe this type of experience will teach me lessons I can’t learn any other way.
- In China, I had such an incredible time interacting with the locals. I want to meet native people from other countries. Oh and fellow travelers too!
- I am not a picky eater whatsoever. I am actually quite open-minded when it comes to food. I want to try new and crazy foods I have never seen before.
- I hope traveling will improve my blogging and photography skills.
- I want to show other introverts that this can be done, as unnatural and scary as it may feel for us. There is nothing easy about sacrificing your own comfort for the uncertainty and unpredictability of the world.
- I don’t want to have any regrets. Life is uncertain. Things happen. Sometimes, when we least expect it. I understand that with delayed gratification, I might be better suited doing this one day down the road but when the time comes, will I still want to??? If I don’t do this now, there is a high possibility I never will.
Where Will Rocky Go?
Truth be told, I honestly don’t know where I will end up. I want to see as many countries as possible but also within reason. Originally, I was going to plan my trip in great detail because I HATE the feeling of uncertainty but planning out all of my travels would defeat the purpose of going in the first place. I have a general idea of where I hope to go but even then, I am going to take it step-by-step and day-by-day.
My purpose is not to travel quickly
but rather to enjoy and understand the places I visit.
My first destination is TBD. I may start in Lisbon if I opt to visit Western Europe first. I was also considering Croatia to avoid the Schengen zone altogether for now. Then there is a part of me that would love to even start in Thailand since I’ve always dreamed of going to that country!!! SO MANY POSSIBILITIES.
My departure date will most likely fall between May and July because there is still some necessary preparation that needs to be done before I leave.
But more than anything else, I am excited.