{"id":19973,"date":"2016-01-06T14:15:34","date_gmt":"2016-01-06T19:15:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/basicallybeyondbasic.com\/?p=19951"},"modified":"2021-05-29T17:09:51","modified_gmt":"2021-05-29T21:09:51","slug":"coming-out-to-extended-family","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.therockysafari.com\/2016\/01\/06\/coming-out-to-extended-family\/","title":{"rendered":"I Spent New Years Day Coming Out to Extended Family"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Happy New Year! On January 1st, I drove to the\u00a0mall with my mom, grandma, and aunt. The four of us spent the whole day shopping the after-holiday sales. For my grandma and aunt, it was supposed to be a fun\u00a0way to spend the\u00a0first day of the new year together. For me and my mom, well, we had a different agenda.\u00a0Between Christmas and New Years, my parents and I sat down and decided it was time to begin the process of coming out to the rest of my family. Between all of the things I post on social media and the seriousness of my current relationship, I feel out of respect for my family, it is time to come out to everyone. I want them to hear it first from me even though that is becoming more and more challenging as I&#8217;ve told more people over the years.<\/p>\n<p>The plan was to tell my grandma and aunt over lunch. The four of us\u00a0ended up eating at a burger place called ShakeShack. I found the\u00a0environment too open and loud to have such a &#8220;serious&#8221; conversation. I got anxious and it didn&#8217;t happen. I was so mad at myself.<\/p>\n<p>Later that day, while shopping for my <a href=\"https:\/\/therockysafari.com\/2016\/01\/02\/teavana-is-discontinuing-their-ruby-spice-cider-tea\/\">Ruby Spice Cider<\/a> tea at Teavana, I received a phone call from my mom. She told me that after trying to send a\u00a0text to me and my dad that essentially said, &#8220;Things are being said and this isn&#8217;t going to go over well,&#8221; but she clicked the wrong button and sent the message to the aunt we were with! Oh my goodness. What a mess this was quickly becoming.<\/p>\n<p>With my heart now racing, I bought my tea and left the store to find my mom. I met up with my grandma who was taking a break from shopping, sitting down in\u00a0a chair at\u00a0the center of the mall. She didn&#8217;t seem to know what was going on yet. If she did, she wasn&#8217;t saying anything about it. When I saw my aunt, she was already talking to my mom. I figured my mom was addressing\u00a0the situation with her. I mean, the text was sent. She\u00a0<em>must<\/em> know now.\u00a0I wished I could have been more involved in the coming out discussion but mistakes happen and this was now out of my control.<\/p>\n<p>As we left the mall to go to our car, my mom turned to me and quickly mumbled, &#8220;Oh my god, oh my god, she&#8217;s looking at her phone right now.&#8221; <em>Wait, what!? You mean\u00a0you didn&#8217;t already talk to her about the message yet!?<\/em>\u00a0<em>Ahhhhh<\/em>! My head began to flood with thoughts about\u00a0how awkward our drive home was going to be.<\/p>\n<p>Once we got onto the road, my mom basically just said, &#8220;Look, I think we all need to talk.&#8221; From there, I put my fear aside and took control of the conversation to tell them the truth once and for all. Both my grandma and my aunt were stunned. I was fortunate to receive a mostly positive reaction from both of them. My grandma cried but explained to me that it was because\u00a0she felt\u00a0truly terrible that I&#8217;ve had to hide this part of my identity from them for so long. My aunt told me\u00a0that being gay\u00a0isn&#8217;t a big deal and that they ultimately she just wants me to be happy. I was happy with how they responded. What more could I ask for?<\/p>\n<p>The two of them\u00a0met up with me one-on-one over the next few days to ask more questions. I can tell they&#8217;re both still in the early stages of accepting\u00a0it but they&#8217;re truly making an effort\u00a0to understand. They\u00a0expressed some\u00a0confusion about certain things pertaining to LGBT issues\u00a0and asked the same questions I&#8217;ve pretty much come to expect after coming out. I explained as much as I could and tried to wipe away as\u00a0many LGBT misconceptions as possible. In the end, they both told me they love me no matter what.<\/p>\n<p>I can only hope the rest of my family will be\u00a0just as understanding.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Happy New Year! On January 1st, I drove to the\u00a0mall with my mom, grandma, and aunt. 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