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International romance. It is complicated, confusing, and different than anything I’ve ever encountered before. I’m surprised I have even allowed myself to fall for a guy from another country knowing what\u00a0it might entail. I keep telling myself that I should really try to date people closer to home… yet the exact opposite keeps happening!<\/p>\n

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Since I first started dating an international student<\/a> from Spain (at my American college) I have constantly asked myself the question, “is it a bad idea to get romantically involved with someone who is only going to be around for a short period of time?”<\/p>\n

The answer to this question remains somewhat unclear. I have convinced myself to try to live in the moment and enjoy what is “now” rather than what “might be.” With every relationship I enter, I quickly start to envision what the future may look like. The difference here is that with dating an international student, it becomes very complicated to figure out.<\/p>\n

For the most part, dating someone from another country has been a welcome departure from the norm. As much as I enjoy the usual dinner date or a trip to the movies, it is even more exciting when sightseeing becomes the go-to option for date night. There are very few things in life that I enjoy more than traveling. When you are literally dating a ‘traveler’ it becomes so much easier to arrange dates that involve visiting new places.<\/p>\n

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Our day trip to\u00a0the Great Jack O’Lantern Blaze in New York.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Dating someone from another country can bring forward unfamiliar customs and traditions you may not be used to. New food, new phrases, new ways of looking at the world. For me, it has been like having a fresh set of eyes enabling me to see the world in new ways. So far, I haven’t had to deal with any outright instances of culture-clash but the fact that I come from a very Italian-American home and am now dating a European guy may be helping to keep our views on things more balanced than they would otherwise be. In any case, I believe openness is key.<\/p>\n

\"\"Considering our\u00a0relationship’s potential “expiration date” has probably been the hardest part for me so far. Commitment and everything else becomes somewhat of a gray area\u00a0when you’re dating someone who is only around\u00a0for a few months. I suppose it is at least worth mentioning that my grandparents did have a successful transnational relationship but their situation was also very different.<\/p>\n

On one hand, it’s scary to think about getting close to someone only to have them taken away in one\u00a0year’s time. On the other, what good is\u00a0living a life without creating memories to look back on?\u00a0I\u00a0recently read a post\u00a0that really resonates with me so I’ll share an excerpt from that here:<\/p>\n

No one can say how hard you\u2019ll fall or how attached you\u2019ll get when you enter a new relationship, even if it\u2019s one that you know you will (probably) need to end at a certain point. When you get involved with someone who lives so far from you, there\u2019s always the chance that he\u2019ll take a little piece of your heart with him. But that can be a good thing, too. \u201c\u2026Falling for [him]\u00a0was the best thing that ever happened to me,\u201d says Kristine. \u201cPeople always ask me, \u2018What\u2019s going to happen next?\u2019 but I\u2019m not worried about that. I took a chance and fell in love, and for now, that\u2019s enough.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

And that’s just it. Right now, the pros outweigh the cons so I’m willing to take that chance. If that ever starts\u00a0to change, then we’ll know it’s time to reevaluate.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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